Mr. Darcy = Mmmm!
I don't want to tell you what to get, but I'll tell you my experience and maybe that will generate some ideas. I have a couple of word tats. One I did when I was 17 but I'll never get rid of it. It says "nyx" (as in the Greek Goddess) - She's the goddess of the night and at the time I had a 10pm to 7am job so that was the only time I was awake, so I felt it appropriate. The other I had done a couple of years ago and it's "omi padme hum" in Tibetan characters. The meaning for me is a prayer for (inner) peace, a meditation and separation from the physical. (I need all the help I can get). I also have a totem pole on my calf and an inuit-style orca on my sholder.
Wow, I didn't realize all the metaphysical-ness of my tattoos until just now. Interesting.
Anyway, sorry for the horrendously long comment. And you've got to know I'm missing you around here!