a different sort of list.... - The Void: Mind Wanderings of a Lost Soul
emaleythe
emaleythe
a different sort of list....
I've been thinking over my current relationship a lot lately. I suppose that happens from time to time. And well, I've been giving myself and getting from others a lot of flack for staying in the relationship, so much that sometimes I wonder why I ever got in it. Perhaps I bitch too much, because I end up forgetting all the nice things that Jason does provide for me. Things that I haven't had in other relationships. So I thought today I'd make a new kind of list, a list of things I wouldn't change about this relationship or my partner:


1. He holds my hand in bed when we're falling asleep every night.
2. He does nuzzle and kiss that little spot on my neck that makes me melt.
3. He does this little funny dance to make me laugh, including an extended version of the baby dance from Ally McBeal, which with his shaved head is hysterical.
4. He fixes my car when it won't work.
5. He brings home chocolate.
6. He will lay his head in my lap when watching tv.
7. He'll tell me silly stories about what my cat says.
8. He loves his son.
9. He picks me four leaf clovers constantly.
10. He always will hug me.
11. Public displays of affection are fine by him.
12. He makes me cds of music he knows I love, and then makes a personalized label.
13. He downloads all my favorite fandoms, without me asking.
14. He tries really hard to please me in the bedroom, even doing things he doesn't like.
15. He'll ask me if I want anyone beat up for treating me badly.
16. He always wants me to go with him places, which forces me to get out of my hobbit hole.
17. He likes to explore.
18. He likes adventures.

I know, short list, but as I notice more things, I'm going to add to it.

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Feeling: contemplative contemplative
Hearing: Hand in Glove - The Smiths

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Comments
From: allthatishippie Date: June 22nd, 2004 09:30 am (UTC) (Link)

an idea

you should make 2 list one of things you like and one of things you don't. See which one wins. I did that before to help me in a relationship. Be honest, don't lie to yourself either. That is a easy thing to do....at least for me when I have been in odd relationships that I should have ended but didn't. If you have doubts there must be a reason for them.
emaleythe From: emaleythe Date: June 22nd, 2004 09:32 am (UTC) (Link)

Re: an idea

yep...i've made the other list...all the things I want? he doesn't have/do.....sad isn't it?
but like I said to Catherine, i know that I'll be strong enough to pull away, because if it's not right, I won't stay.
owlgrey From: owlgrey Date: June 23rd, 2004 04:13 am (UTC) (Link)
That was a sweet list though.

Off topic I know, but I love 'Hand in Glove' by the Smiths.
emaleythe From: emaleythe Date: June 23rd, 2004 07:09 am (UTC) (Link)
first time I heard it was yesterday, but I liked it a lot
owlgrey From: owlgrey Date: June 23rd, 2004 07:00 pm (UTC) (Link)
Oh God, I'm an 80's person, but then I'm old!
emaleythe From: emaleythe Date: June 23rd, 2004 08:08 pm (UTC) (Link)
lol...well surely we're not THAT different in age :)....i just didn't listen to much 80's music...
owlgrey From: owlgrey Date: June 23rd, 2004 09:43 pm (UTC) (Link)
Err, ok, here we go. Shock of shocks I'm...42.
emaleythe From: emaleythe Date: June 24th, 2004 06:14 am (UTC) (Link)
lol...ok...well we're a little different then, as I'm 27
owlgrey From: owlgrey Date: June 24th, 2004 04:42 pm (UTC) (Link)
Oh fuck!!! I am old.
emaleythe From: emaleythe Date: June 24th, 2004 05:09 pm (UTC) (Link)
lol...if it helps, i feel 50 :)
owlgrey From: owlgrey Date: June 24th, 2004 07:55 pm (UTC) (Link)
I don't wanna do the maths on what age I would feel then!
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